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Pencils, Prayers & Peace (Eventually): Christ-centered Back to School for Tips Blended Families
Back-to-school stress is a given, but it doesn’t have to be a god. You don't have to bow to it or be undone by it. I used to treat August like a military operation: Every detail triple-checked, every contingency planned. I was Moses with a planner, minus the staff. But God didn’t call us to control every outcome. He called us to faithfulness.
Instead of spiraling into anxiety about supplies and schedules, I started asking God to help me see this season differently.

Cheryl Shumake
Aug 36 min read


Face Like Flint: Staying Consistent in Blended-Family Fickleness
My husband and I were recently speaking with my bonus daughter. We've been doing a lot of that lately as she is preparing for the birth...

Cheryl Shumake
Jan 28, 20229 min read


Cease Fire: Ending the Civil War in Your Stepmomma Heart
When I chat with a Bonus Mom who tells me she can't love her stepchildren I know I'm listening to a woman whose heart is at war...

Cheryl Shumake
Mar 14, 20213 min read


10 Holiday Wholeness Hacks: For the Bonus Mom's Soul
The most wonderful time of the year can be, under the best of circumstances, the most stress-inducing time of the year.

Cheryl Shumake
Nov 16, 20204 min read


Inside Out: Stepmoming for His Glory Not Ours
For whom are you doing it? What's the measurement for determining success? Failure? If it's not "Well done" then perhaps it's time for a...

Cheryl Shumake
Oct 9, 20201 min read


A Change Go'n Come
The space was in disarray ... Completely dismantled and stripped... Still, I always saw my office even as I dealt with the mess.

Cheryl Shumake
Sep 3, 20205 min read
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