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Essential Blended Family Resources for Building a Stronger Home
Blended families face unique challenges that require patience, communication, and support. From counseling and support groups to educational tools and faith-based guidance, blended family resources provide practical strategies to strengthen relationships, support children, and create a healthy, connected home environment for every family member.

Cheryl Shumake
7 days ago4 min read


Finding Hope in God: A Journey Through Life's Challenges
Some years feel like pages we’d rather not reread—but hope has a way of pulling our eyes forward. With few exceptions, 2025 has been a chapter filled with pages that belong on the "delete" list. There have been days when I sat in my living room replaying a loop: Lord, will it get better? Was this really the plan!? Am I doing enough? You know those thoughts—the ones that sneak in when the house is quiet, just in time to lead you down forlorn roads. In those moments, I have to

Cheryl Shumake
Dec 14, 20255 min read


God Wants to Be Good to You: Experience God's Goodness in Your Blended Family Life
“If life hurts, God must not be good.”
That lie has whispered to every stepmom’s heart at some point. But what if hardship and goodness can actually coexist—and what if God’s goodness is closer than you think, even in the mess of blended family life?
Read the full blog: God Wants to Be Good to You

Cheryl Shumake
Sep 26, 20254 min read


Pencils, Prayers & Peace (Eventually): Christ-centered Back to School for Tips Blended Families
Back-to-school stress is a given, but it doesn’t have to be a god. You don't have to bow to it or be undone by it. I used to treat August like a military operation: Every detail triple-checked, every contingency planned. I was Moses with a planner, minus the staff. But God didn’t call us to control every outcome. He called us to faithfulness.
Instead of spiraling into anxiety about supplies and schedules, I started asking God to help me see this season differently.

Cheryl Shumake
Aug 3, 20256 min read


Tips for Living a Balanced Stepmom Life
Whether you're a new stepmom or have been in the role for years, a full-time SAHM, or rarely see your kids, I know you need a "balance refresher". These strategies can help you find balance in a busy bonus mom life - not a perfect balance, but a faithful one - as you navigate supporting your husband, loving your children, fulfilling your other roles, and caring for your own heart.

Cheryl Shumake
Jul 11, 20258 min read


No More Mother's Day Mayhem: Rewriting Mother's Day as a Stepmom
So if Mother’s Day feels tender, complicated, or just heavy, let’s rewrite the script together this year. Lay your hand over your heart and say it with me, "No more Mother's Day Mayhem!"

Cheryl Shumake
May 9, 20255 min read


Celebrating the Impact Stepmoms Have in Families
Being a stepmom isn’t for the faint of heart. You show up in love, lead with grace, and keep going—even when the road is bumpy and the reward isn’t immediate. That kind of commitment deserves to be celebrated. In a world that often overlooks this role, let’s flip the script. Let’s make stepmom celebration a rhythm, not a rarity—a way of life that reminds every woman walking this path that her presence is powerful, her role is sacred, and her love is deeply impactful.

Cheryl Shumake
Apr 15, 20258 min read


Cultivating Cooperative Coparenting: A Blueprint for Building Familial Harmony
by Ashara Hood When I was in high school, a hit hip-hop song penned by extraordinary lyricist Dana Owens—better known as Queen...

Cheryl Shumake
Mar 17, 20254 min read


Together We Win: God's Blueprint for a Thriving Blended Family Marriage
Blended family marriage thrives with faith, unity, and effort. Prioritize your bond, align parenting, and handle conflict with grace.

Cheryl Shumake
Feb 21, 20256 min read


From Chaos to Connection: Building Resilient Blended Families Through Faith
Resilience is your "bounce-back-ability" and you must have it in order to move your family from chaos to connection.

Cheryl Shumake
Jan 27, 20256 min read


From Pieces to a Masterpiece: Building a Blended Family Legacy That Lasts
Turn your blended family into a lasting legacy. Learn to set values, blend histories, and build a shared vision for unity and love.

Cheryl Shumake
Nov 13, 20246 min read


Shattered Silence: Recognize the Signs of Abuse and Break Free
Shattered Silence: Break free from the hidden cycle of abuse. Learn how to recognize the signs and reclaim your voice and life.

Cheryl Shumake
Oct 29, 20248 min read


Ribbons and Bows: Holiday Traditions for Stepfamily Bonding
Strengthen bonds this season with fun, faith-filled holiday traditions to for stepfamily bonding! Create unity, joy, and lasting memories!

Cheryl Shumake
Oct 14, 20248 min read


No More Drama: Biblical Wisdom for Co-parenting Courtroom Chaos
Stay calm amid co-parenting chaos with God's peace and wisdom. Practical steps to rise above courtroom drama and protect your heart. #Stepmo

Cheryl Shumake
Oct 4, 20246 min read


Finding Bliss: Tips for Embracing a Stepmom Self-Care Sabbatical
This journey can be incredibly rewarding yet undeniably challenging. Balancing the various responsibilities and dynamics within a blended...

Cheryl Shumake
Sep 23, 20244 min read


The Ultimate Step-Mom Survival Guide: Navigating the Unknown with Joy!
Were you really ready for one of the most rewarding journeys out there - step-motherhood? Stepping into the role of a stepmom is often described as a journey into the unknown. You may have felt a calling to love and nurture your stepchildren, yet the path is riddled with challenges, uncertainties, and emotional complexities. How do you embrace this role with joy when the road seems so unpredictable? As a Christ-following stepmom, you have a unique opportunity to lean on God’s

Cheryl Shumake
Aug 28, 20246 min read


Grandparenting Step by Step: Do's and Don'ts
Bonus grandparents play a pivotal role in blended family dynamics.
A well-adjusted bonus grandparent can help a blended family bond!

Cheryl Shumake
Sep 13, 20225 min read


Prepping Your Heart for Mother's Day
“It’s just one day,” but it is a day of great significance... well-supplied with unrealistic expectations, tension, and territorial wars...

Cheryl Shumake
May 6, 20225 min read


How Conflict Serves
Let's begin a conversation on how to use conflict to improve our marriage.

Cheryl Shumake
Mar 9, 20224 min read


Face Like Flint: Staying Consistent in Blended-Family Fickleness
My husband and I were recently speaking with my bonus daughter. We've been doing a lot of that lately as she is preparing for the birth...

Cheryl Shumake
Jan 28, 20229 min read
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